Committing Too Quickly Regardless of the high number of women you will have to choose from, you will likely have an immediate favorite at any given moment. The urge will be to focus all your time with that one woman. However, a man’s initial top choice often does not stay that way. In the early dating stages unwanted surprises can reveal attributes you or she may not like about each other. What may have been, for example, your third favorite or even a new introduction can rise to the top. An early favorite comes primarily from physical attraction. But in the long run, if that woman does not have other aspects that are important to you, her beauty and attractiveness will diminish, whereas a woman who does have the compatibility and personality you seek, and is in the physical range of what you like, will become more attractive to you as you get to know her. It is best not to disregard the other women you like prior to knowing for sure that the current favorite has and can give all that you want in a wife. Meet all the women you selected that wanted to meet you, go on dates with the women you liked, and continue with the dating of multiple women until you know for sure you made the best choice based not on lust, but on mutual compatibility and attraction. Once you are down to one strong interest you can then focus on developing the relationship and love.
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